don't underestimate the things that i will do
Tuesday, April 21st, 2015 06:00 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
erikaHe's already out of jail. Set a bond of 10,000 dollars but evidently you only have to pay 1/10th of it. At least I'm hitting his pocketbook.
Spoke to a survivor advocate yesterday. They mentioned the possibility of his lawyer plea-bargaining the charge down to a non-sexual assault, or him not having to register on the sex offender list, and I nearly flipped a fucking table. Evidently my brain has decided plea bargains are Not OK.
Granted it's not like I didn't know the potential existed, but the idea that he could get off after being arrested and charged with the fucking crime and ADMITTING HE DID IT—— makes my blood fucking boil. I'm going to do my best to see that this asshole gets some jail time.
How can you use someone like that and ... how? I didn't understand it when it was my brother and I don't understand it from someone who was supposed to be my partner.
The worst part today is looking back and seeing all the times my friends, my family, everyone tried to warn me, and I didn't listen. Or remembering good things that I thought made up for the fact that every goddamn day he chipped away at me.
Feeling generous? You can still contribute to my gofundme, paypal me @ midnightparadox (gmail), or comment here to let me know your thoughts & good wishes. I appreciate every erg of support that's been given to me, and I also greatly appreciate thatPatrickno one has said "I told you so" because y'all totally knew.
Spoke to a survivor advocate yesterday. They mentioned the possibility of his lawyer plea-bargaining the charge down to a non-sexual assault, or him not having to register on the sex offender list, and I nearly flipped a fucking table. Evidently my brain has decided plea bargains are Not OK.
Granted it's not like I didn't know the potential existed, but the idea that he could get off after being arrested and charged with the fucking crime and ADMITTING HE DID IT—— makes my blood fucking boil. I'm going to do my best to see that this asshole gets some jail time.
How can you use someone like that and ... how? I didn't understand it when it was my brother and I don't understand it from someone who was supposed to be my partner.
The worst part today is looking back and seeing all the times my friends, my family, everyone tried to warn me, and I didn't listen. Or remembering good things that I thought made up for the fact that every goddamn day he chipped away at me.
Feeling generous? You can still contribute to my gofundme, paypal me @ midnightparadox (gmail), or comment here to let me know your thoughts & good wishes. I appreciate every erg of support that's been given to me, and I also greatly appreciate that
