Select Seeds Order
Saturday, March 21st, 2026 11:42 pmPainted Tongue 'Select Superbissima Mix' (seeds)
Yarrow 'Flowerburst Red Shades' (seeds)
Coreopsis 'Corusco Cream-Red' (seeds)
Prairie Moon Order
Saturday, March 21st, 2026 11:37 pmEarly Figwort (seed)
Late Figwort (seed)
Common Ironweed (seed)
Purple Love Grass (seed)
Lead Plant (seed)
tangent from the ballet questions
Saturday, March 21st, 2026 09:30 pmLike, I assume that A Castle is a significant economic unit, and having it fuck off behind a hedge for five generations, and then pop back into life has some effects on the surrounding countryside? (I guess in the ballet they put the whole kingdom to sleep? WHICH I ALSO HAVE QUESTIONS ABOUT!)
Like your daughter is a maid in the castle, then poof! behind a hedge! But then she's back to meet her great grand nieces?
What if you had a financial relationship with the castle?
What if the neighbouring duke or whatever wanted your land? I assume he'd just take it, at that point, but then poof! the castle's back?
But also, the fey showing up and doing things seems to be normal and expected in this universe, so maybe people are just used to it, and have contingency plans for people stuck sleeping behind a hedge for five generations?
Anyway, is there like a novel that deals with this? If not Sleeping Beauty directly, then something similar, where it's a whole bunch of people forming a significant political and economic unit essentially yeeted out of time for a hundred years?
(Hard no on anything that involves the rapey version of Sleeping Beauty.)
It's definitely spring today
Saturday, March 21st, 2026 11:30 pmSo instead I was going to go shopping in Chillicothe but also I wanted to write. So I stopped at my usual coffee house for a Marshmallow Chick latte (meh, not very strong flavors ah well) got a lot written. Got to Chillicothe, still wanted to write so I went to that new coffee shop in the place where I was going for years. It was bad last time when they were just first starting but they did pick it up and it was much better this time.
I got some crosstrainers! I needed new sneakers in the worst way and I I hate shopping for shoes especially with my weird feet. I am very happy.
Got stuff at Aldi's and I must face the fact my fridge is nothing but cheese, salami and prosciutto so what shall I do about this? Eat a lot of cheese.
Got a few things at TJ Maxx including a few things for Rocket.
Also I went to Ollie's and did something I've never done before. I dropped something and broke it. That was embarrassing. It was cute solar power light (which I ended up not buying any because that would be all I thought about).
No science this Saturday other than this entry for Women's history. I didn't learn this theory in school but I HAVE taught it since I came to my university. I had no idea it was a woman's theory that had been ignored and belittled for years and now it's science canon (at least for now since science does evolve) But DNA has proven her right about mitochondria being bacterial. Anyhow meet Lynn Margulis
Watching something on Hallmark Mystery that is just plain awful. I was excited for something new Nelly Knows Mystery. The acting is bad, the plot ludicrous, good lord. The detective barely knows what he's doing and a uniformed officer seems to be in command (unless she's the sheriff? I have no idea because it's too dumb to pay attention to
"it's just an ordinary day, and it's all your state of mind" (great big sea)
Saturday, March 21st, 2026 10:59 pmHolding steady with 8* out of 22 dahlias sprouted at the two-week mark. (They're gonna need more space and more light.) 2 of 3 canna boxes are still sleeping; I will probably give in and pot some of the more reckless from the top box tomorrow. (They don't need as much light as dahlias, and I do have extra soil, if not space.)
ETA: 12 hours later there's 9 and I genuinely don't know which one is the new one.
Cleaned up some leaves and old pumpkins from the side and dogwood gardens today, pruned the crabapple and montauk daisies yesterday. Still watching the maybe crocus/scilla sprouts in the rock garden, no further evidence at this time. (Now I am even side-eyeing the chiondoxa: maybe it's daffodils this year! Who knows! Apparently not me.)
( pictures )
♥ Miscellaneous notes:
What America Could Learn From Asia's Robot Revolution, article adapted from Candi K. Cann's book augmented. I found the "conclusion" particularly memorable:
"To me, this is the crux of why Americans have such a hard time accepting robots and other new technologies into our everyday lives, and why our science fiction is filled with stories of humans versus robots. In the United States, robots are viewed as soulless, unlike in Asia, where they are viewed as soul-possible or soul-different. For those who cling to the notion of human exceptionalism, if robots could be viewed as sentient, then perhaps humans are not that special after all. Until we take seriously the ways in which our cultural and religious heritages inspire and impede our attitudes toward technologies, the development of these technologies will remain the realm of only a select few."
Finally, Duolingo has added "B2" levels to its Chinese course as A/B. For once I am on the exciting side of A/B testing, so I got to bump my level from 100 to 130 yesterday. According to last year's Duocon, there are no current plans to add further content after B2, but Duolingo has defined levels up to C2/160.
...What does this mean? idk, but probably owls all the way down.
Book Review
Saturday, March 21st, 2026 10:28 pmby Helen Simonson
This quiet, lovely novel takes place during the summer of 1919. Constance Haverhill is spending the summer in the seaside town of Hazelbourne, acting as a companion to Mrs. Fog, who is the mother of Lady Mercer, a friend of Constance's late mother. Constance meets Poppy Wirrall, daughter of a local baronet and head of a motorcycling club for women and runs a women's motorcycle taxi service. Constance and Poppy become friends, and Constance is drawn into her circle, and to her brother Harris, a wounded war veteran. Constance, Poppy, and the other members of the club must contend with a return to peacetime that also threatens their new freedoms and prospects.
I really enjoyed this novel. It's mainly driven by the characters and their relationships rather than by a big, sweeping plot. Constance is such a wonderfully sympathetic character. I really related to her desire for independence and with the way she chafed against being considered useful and instead wanted to be considered attractive and desirable. All the other characters are interesting and well-drawn. I especially liked Mrs. Fog, who makes her own bid for the life she really wants, and Tilly, a librarian turned mechanic. The way Simonson explores how women negotiated the way the war shook up the hierarchies of class and gender is very deft yet pointed. Her points about how the toffs treat the working classes were sharp.
Daily Happiness
Saturday, March 21st, 2026 08:01 pm2. I made a rhubarb pie earlier and we're going to have some of that for dessert. We still have a bunch of baggies of chopped rhubarb in the freezer from when we were buying it from the farmers market last year lol.
3. Ollie loves to snuggle on my clothes. :)

"The People You Meet Along The Way." (The Parent Trap - 1998) G
Saturday, March 21st, 2026 09:27 pmTitle: The People You Meet Along The Way.
Author:
Fandom: The Parent Trap (1998)
Rating: G
Archives: Archive Of Our Own, SquidgeWorld
Summary: Twelve years later, they meet at an airport.
( Meredith is so fun to write )
Saturday note.
Saturday, March 21st, 2026 10:18 pmThe Smithsonian’s African American museum deserves two days to really take in, but we managed a decent overview with about six hours, minus 30 for lunch. The building used every minute of all the years it took to design and construct.
Texts From Superheroes
Saturday, March 21st, 2026 09:00 pmno subject
Saturday, March 21st, 2026 08:46 pmFirst, a confession. I did not read all of Middlemarch last month. I didn't even read all of it this year. I started it in 2023, took about got 60% of the way through, and then put it away. Until this past month. I read the chapter summaries of the book I was on (Book 5 of 8) on Sparknotes, reviewed my chat comments from 2023, and decided that would suffice.
So, I can't really talk about the book as a book-shaped thing. Not really. What can I say...
Did any of you ever run into a book--the name of which escapes me--that was a set of joke summaries of famous books? The Ulysses one was the shortest: "June 16 came, and went, in Dublin." It's not that funny, but I kept thinking that one summary of Middlemarch, as true as anything else, might be, "Some years came, and went, in Middlemarch."
It's a bad summary, of course, but it at least hints at the scope of the novel... Well. Arguably. There aren't that many working class or poor people in Middlemarch. "Some years came, and went, in Middlemarch, where several upper class families with different fortunes-------------"
Drags hands down my face. I just checked my trusty notes where normally I have some sort of review to use as crib notes, and what did past blotthis write? "good book." Thanks, buddy. Okay. In the interest of writing this up at all, have some messages copied from DMs I sent people while reading. Unless indicated, it's just me babbling:( I'm losing my mind george is so excellently filleting the poor the rich the religious the technocrat and the technophobe in TWO PARAGRAPHS ABOUT ATTITUDES ABOUT TRAINS. )
Sighs. I really, really liked it. As you can see, I particularly lost my mind over the Lydgates, a toxic marriage so bad it made me want to strip my skin off instead of chanting sexy divorce! like a little goblin and over the homosocially-charged scene between Rosamund and Dorothea. Every day I am praying to the Yuletide gods that someone will write the version where they make sexy gay mistakes. For me. I also loved Fred and Mary, Mr. Featherstone, and, god, I loved reading about Bulstrode from Eliot's pen.
I am honestly still agog at both Eliot's powers of observation and at her power to transmit that observation. I saw (but didn't read) some article about how it's simply not possible to write in this style of aphoristic-all-seeing-judgement-cum-fairness anymore, and I don't know if I believe it, but I do think Eliot is on some dope shit. I certainly don't know anyone else who writes like this. (It did make me feel like I needed to go read some Tolstoy?? Is this two cakes????)
I enjoy Austen best when she's making her narrator a coy little bitch to her characters, and Eliot somehow is a coy little bitch to all her characters by never doing that. Or almost never. I don't know. I'd have to reread it, or at least write out all my highlights by hand to get a handle on it. Either'd be a worthwhile project, for sure, but neither are in my near future... Anyway. She's got a phenomenal control of tone and POV, I can tell you that.
I'm also still stunned at how fucking gripped I was by the ending arcs of the novel. I knew some stuff from summaries, but knowing where the Lydgates end up and what Dorothea chooses to do simply does not do justice to the intensity of those last 100 something pages. I still don't know how she did it. I mean, several dark nights of the soul in a row, but to have those Dark Nights feel like, Yes. This is where this was all heading. 600 pages ago. For like six different characters. Insane shit.
The very ending is funny, because Eliot tries to suggest that Dorothea is the book's main character? Or something? Which. Well. Okay. The comparison I made above to TNY is in the way The New Yorker Story gives you a character, lets you watch them make decisions, and then invites you to judge them. There's some of that, in Eliot. I mean, Eliot also invites you to consider how you judge them, as well as tells you about why you might judge them, etc., etc., so it's not like they're that similar in form, but there certainly is an overlapping interest in the Foibles of the Upper-Middle Class and How They Have or Don't Have Dark Nights of the Soul. Anyway. The end of Middlemarch is NOT the ending of a New Yorker Story. She will be telling you some more things you should think about. It's not nearly as strong--to my mind--as the rest of the ending, but I can forgive it, given how good the rest of the book is.
It's worth noting, if you are inspired to read it, that Eliot's occasionally Upper Middle Class English weird about Jewish people. Not the worst, but Becca let me know that Daniel Deronda is about how hard it is to be hot Jew, and that tracks. And is kind of embarrassing. George... C'mon. C'mon.
Anyway. Great fucking book. One of my favorites of the year so far, for sure.
Torrent Watch Party!
Saturday, March 21st, 2026 06:54 pmI'm also glad I went early because the patio the event was on did run out of seating. People were standing next to the TV to the left of this shot:

The pop up had a Jackson jersey and I was good and did not buy my first hockey jersey. I am not buying a Jackson jersey unless they get a start or Seattle resigns them, in which was I'll be sad that I didn't get an inaugural jersey.
(CJ Jackson is openly NB, and a 3rd goalie for Seattle. I really want a jersey of Seattle's NB goalie, but no, not unless they stay in Seattle next year)
There was a girl there who said she was 'very new to hockey', but her clothes were in all Torrent colors, her handmade jewelry was in Torrent colors, she has a Torrent itabag and she'd made 'trinkets' to hand out, glass pendants she'd made in Torrent colors.
Pendant and also event swag:

Torrent have a lot of momentum. They sell out areas nearly 3x the size of the Boston Fleet's home arena. I really hope the team do just a little better to not lose some of that support.
To Love Somebody, Part 1: Revelation
Saturday, March 21st, 2026 09:22 pmBeckett Mariner has been having steamy dreams about her best friend, Brad Boimler, and isn't sure what to make of it. That is, until William, his transporter clone, reappears into her life after having been revealed to still be alive, following a fake-out of his own death in order to be recruited by Section 31. He invites her to visit his ship, where things lead to another, and this makes her realize that maybe there's more to those dreams she's been having about Brad, after all.
Set before "I'm Awake, But My World Is Half-Asleep".
Words: 5624, Chapters: 1/1, Language: English
- Fandoms: Star Trek: Lower Decks (Cartoon)
- Rating: Explicit
- Warnings: No Archive Warnings Apply
- Categories: F/M
- Characters: Beckett Mariner, William Boimler, Carol Freeman, Alonzo Freeman, Brad Boimler
- Relationships: Brad Boimler/Beckett Mariner, William Boimler/Beckett Mariner, Alonzo Freeman/Carol Freeman
- Additional Tags: Dream Sex, one-night-stand, Mutual Pining, vasectomy mention, Section 31, Porn With Plot, Smut, Cunnilingus, Oral Sex, Penis In Vagina Sex, Kissing, Love Confessions
Sochya eh Dif
Saturday, March 21st, 2026 08:12 pmby FFcrazy15
T'Lyn deals (or rather, doesn't) with some difficult medical news as the crew investigates a dimensional rift cutting off communication from Starbase 80. Meanwhile, Freeman tries to get Dr. T'Ana to develop a better bedside manner.
(Violet Nebula AU of S5E5: "Starbase 80?!")
Words: 5071, Chapters: 1/4, Language: English
Series: Part 10 of Violet Nebula
- Fandoms: Star Trek: Lower Decks (Cartoon)
- Rating: Teen And Up Audiences
- Warnings: No Archive Warnings Apply
- Categories: Multi
- Characters: T'Lyn (Star Trek), Beckett Mariner, Brad Boimler, D'Vana Tendi, Sam Rutherford, T'Ana (Star Trek), Carol Freeman
- Relationships: Brad Boimler & Beckett Mariner & Sam Rutherford & D'Vana Tendi & T'Lyn, Brad Boimler/Beckett Mariner, Sam Rutherford/D'Vana Tendi
- Additional Tags: T'Lyn-centric, Bendii Syndrome (Star Trek), Starbase 80 (Star Trek), Friendship, Pairings are pre-relationship and not the focus
no subject
Saturday, March 21st, 2026 08:18 pmTree people all want to come in the morning. Have another coming next Saturday at 10. Must stop the hurkledurkling I do because out of bed at noon does not help. But must also bump thermostat to uncomfortable highs because it's waking in the cold that makes me not want to get out of bed. Well, that and the delightful dreams I have when I go back to sleep. This morning's involved roommates either moving in or out and a cat that might have been theirs or mine.
Supervised catio and garden time [cats, gardening]
Saturday, March 21st, 2026 07:59 pmHe didn't actually make any full escape attempts, but he did try and pretend to be a bird in the stump of a Burning Bush. My current hypothesis is that he has managed to climb the netting to escape through a gap right above the Burning Bush.

The neighbors got rapt attention for a while, I think because one of them had a (very well-behaved!) dog.

While supervising the cats, I also managed to get the raspberries pruned. The bright pink tips of the useless rhubarb are also starting to show!

This rhubarb is useless because it refuses to make big, juicy stalks. Instead every year it just tries to make flowers and seeds, as if reproducing sexually is its top priority for some reason. Super annoying.
Hopefully tomorrow I'll manage some compost and worm bin sorting. I'd like to get composts applied to the soil before the perennials all come fully back to life.
Weekly Reading
Saturday, March 21st, 2026 05:06 pmLucky Stiff
Third book in the Lillian Byrd murder mystery series.
The Cartographers
When the MC's father dies, she finds an old road map in his things, the source of a massive fight years ago that resulted in him cutting ties with her and blackballing her from the cartography world. In trying to figure out why her father would have kept the map, she learns about not only the secrets of the map itself, but about her parents. I enjoyed this but it was very slow for the first half or so.
The Hanging Tree
A woman goes on a writing retreat at a remote manor and learns of a local legend about a young woman who was hanged as a witch on the property and decides that's what she wants her next book to be about. The book is told in dual timelines with the present being about her research and the past being the actual events. I liked this, but there was way too much romance focus in both the past and present.
Can't We Talk About Something More Pleasant?
Graphic novel about the author's relationship with her parents, especially focused on caring for them in their final years. I really liked this a lot.
Huda F Cares? and Huda F Wants to Know?
Second and third books in the Huda F series of YA graphic novels about a very religious Muslim teen loosely based on the author's life. I continue to enjoy this series.
Hatsukoi no Tsugi vol. 3
Final volume in this companion series to Koi-iji. I liked this a lot.
A reprieve and a quieter weekend [status, rowing]
Saturday, March 21st, 2026 06:57 pmI also finally got relief from the bureaucratic purgatory I've been in for the past 6 weeks-plus, so I can finally talk more about it all. The bureaucratic purgatory has been just one part of what made the past week hectic. Basically, I'm still the point person for the rowing club's special events, which involves applying to our municipality for Special Events Permits. This year, the city threw in an added complication, in that technically our event is happening in space owned and managed by the State, so for the first time in the 8 years I've been doing all this, the City said we also needed to obtain a permit from the state.
Cue lots of internal screaming. The last time I tried to obtain a permit for something from the State, it was for a liquor license for our regatta, and while that all eventually more-or-less worked out, it took forever, was an extremely opaque process, and wound up costing us over a grand in surprise fees. After that all wrapped up we all concluded we would never, ever bother to try and have alcohol at one of our events, ever again. Just not worth it in any way, shape, or form.
Anyway, in this case, thankfully the permit point person for the State was pretty responsive (at least, once I called in instead of just emailing), and that is how I was able to learn fairly quickly that the info I had about a paper permit application form was out-of-date, and I should submit the application through a newer electronic system. Okay. At least that meant I wouldn't be blindly assembling a bunch of paperwork to mail in and then wonder whether it ever arrived successfully, let alone whether it was actually filled out correctly, etc.
Of course, it was only later on, partway through the whole application process, that I then learned that yes, we also had to submit a whole bunch of additional insurance information as compared to what we've had to submit in the past to the City, including some forms that don't make much sense for the nature of the activities we have planned, that have more to do with construction insurance than with people running and walking on a bike-hike trail. So we then had a terrible time hunting down the appropriate insurance forms, which have all sorts of obtuse acronym names and numbers, and where certain information must be EXACTLY the same in every place and must appear in EXACTLY the right place on the form. After a ton of casting about by a bunch of us, I eventually wound up tracking down a person involved in organizing a larger regional running event to ask how they handled things, and then finally learned from them that we'd picked the wrong one out of two main options for providing our event insurance. Ugh. Sigh. Still - that person saved us.
Yes, it wound up costing us extra money to go back and submit a sanctioning application to the other insurance-providing entity, but the people who provided the correct insurance were amazing and expedited our application on their end, so it was only 4 days or so of waiting instead of 2 more weeks of waiting. I then immediately turned back around and finally furnished the updated, correct documentation to the State. That was towards the end of the week before last. Then, another agonizing wait of several more days, as the clock ticked down closer and closer to our event date. To my great relief, we FINALLY got the State approval this past Tuesday, so then I turned right back around and sent along all of that documentation over to the City. Last but not least, I was then finally able to call in and submit the final payment to the City this past Friday. For an event scheduled to happen a week from today.
No sweat, right? Ugh. It is so, so bad to cut this kind of thing so close. It would have really sucked for about 20 different reasons if we'd been forced to cancel; we've had to keep working on the rest of the event planning while the permits were in limbo. (things like having t-shirts made, securing timing services, securing a DJ, wrangling volunteers, promoting the event to get people to sign up for it, etc etc).
Small silver linings: Now we know exactly what we will need to do next year for this event. We also have more lead time to get working on repeating the whole permitting process for the regatta we hold every September. That, of course (of course!!), relies on a separate insurance source, but at least I can give the relevant entity in that case the example insurance paperwork we gathered for this event.
Oh, and also, I have a teammate who is willing to take over this particular set of paperwork filing tasks for next year! The handoff will require some work, but I just think it will be far better for all of us to have more than one person versed in how to navigate this whole bureaucratic nightmare, and this particular teammate has much more relevant experience than me in doing this sort of stuff.
This all meant that this morning's project of going out to measure and mark our event's course was fun, finally, instead of being clouded by uncertainty.
10trueloves: loss
Saturday, March 21st, 2026 06:32 pmChapters: 1/1
Fandom: Birds of Prey
Rating: Teen And Up Audiences
Warnings: No Archive Warnings Apply
Characters: Sandra Wu-San, Dinah Lance
Additional Tags: Double Drabble, +Modern Age (1986-Present), Post-Crisis, [Birds of Prey Vol. 1 - 1999-2009]
Summary:
Shiva pushes, so Dinah can put it behind.
Distraction from Grief
Move. Evaluate. Decide. Commit.
Shiva was making her work through her grief for Sensei in the way that mattered, now that they had foiled Cheshire's plan. Both of them excelled in the Arts, but the difference was being felt in every muscle, joint, and tendon as Dinah worked through the spar.
Shiva was a master, effortless in blending her many forms to always meet any rally that Dinah made, preventing Dinah from winning. Yet, Dinah also recognized that Shiva was having to rely on that blending to keep the upper hand.
In a formal, single style spar, Dinah and Shiva would likely be evenly matched.
Like this?
Dinah had to smile, a genuine one, to be pushed so far, so hard, so long.
Was that what Shiva had been waiting for? As the next move saw Dinah on the mats and Shiva pinning her, full length, hand in knife-strike pose at her throat.
"You choose life, not dwelling on death," Shiva purred, and damned if that didn't make Dinah remember other aspects of living that were worthwhile.
"Care to live a little with me, grab a hot soak, some good food?"
"Sensualist."
And yet, they moved together in that plan.
